The Five Types of Boredom

Thanks for the advice Hahaha, next time my bf asks to meet my friends I will tell him there is a big chance a big disaster could happen and we could end up splitting I'm sure that will surely scare him enough not to insist. I've actually never liked the idea of my boyfriend meeting my friends, it just doesn'r feel right... since the relationship is between the two of us... so we should spend that time together instead, no? I just don't like to mix that, and now I'm SUPEEEEEER glad there is a good reason not to do it

Well, her hubby doesn't seem to be a nice person either, but I don;t know how bad he really is. I do know he also like to show off why too much, and he's extremely rude. WHne I went to their place I never felt welcome by him. I don't blame him tho... I never liked him or his family. Specially after finding out his mom said my now ex was only with me to get his visa and not because he loved me They're so mean, that's why I act like they don't exist anymore. By the way, her husband does earn well, but she used to work and earn so well too, she had to stop because her spine, no more elegant weekend parties drinking until they drop... lol

 

Yeah remember that I mentioned that my friend literally started a hate campaign against my other friend because she became his bf? And her excuse was that it's "immoral"? It really hurts like 100% more when a friend gets together with your bf or crush, now I understand why when I watch tv shows or movies, the character always makes a fuss that her friend ended up with her crush or ex. I always thought to myself that it's really no big deal, they just happen to know the person personally. You really have to experience it 1st hand. So don't even show them his pic! Or never mention him at all!

No wonder you don't like to attend their gatherings, you shouldn't even bother! Oh I will tell you via PM how to never get deceived again, hehe. We really should take pre-cautionary measures now regarding trusting people.

 

Ok, I'll be waiting I hope I didn't freak you out with the things I told you... I mena, my family sounds a bit errr... dysfunctional, lol. All went well today, took my mother for lunch, it was nice

As for your friend, lol, so lame It was so lame it was so obvious why she was doing that. I know is really hard to really get over that, but... come on! That's like humiliating yourself in public! I'd never do it, but I know there are a lot girls and guys like that! I'd resist the urge to do so... there is a friend I really need some help from (for an online job) but it seems to be ignoring me. I feel so bad to contact him... because he might feel like I'm begging him to talk to me for a different reason.

 

Yeah, that female friend of mine isn't so bright, but the male one that we talked about was cunning! Oh well that's why you'll never know what a person is capable of until certain circumstances happen. Regarding your male friend, you're afraid that he might think that you only contacted him because you needed help right?

 

I'm definitely number 5. I get that feeling all the time everyday. Number 5 hit the nail for me. I want to change something but can't due to my current situation I can't do anything about it. The feeling of frustration coupled with extreme boredom. I'm gonna say this is the worst.

 

Oh no, he has always been weird (he's a gemini) , most of my experiences with gemini men have been really bad so far. I don't know if it's a coincidence or my destiny, but I swear I always have this kind of issues with gemini guys. This guy knows I feel a connection with him, he's just being an escapist as usual

 

Ah so there's love involved already, lol. But you're taken already, so there's no need for him to act that way. That's why I'm also quite averse to Gemini people. But I don't mind to hang out with one casually, but I don't want get close to them.

 

Oh no, not that. Is just me and this guy had very deep talks in the past, about our life and so on. Plus he knows to listen, lol. I'm not in love with him tho. As you said, no reason to do that, we are just friends! But I'll tell you why I liked to have him around... as a pisces, I like to fix everything that seems broken, that includes people Do you have that tendency as well?

 

Only if I like the person romantically hehe. Like you hope that they will change for the better right? As a friend I will try my best to give advice and to stop them from doing their bad habits, but if they don't want to listen then I let them be. I don't impose though. You can only impose what you think is good for that person if you are at least dating, in my opinion. But I don't mind giving out advice. How about you, do you also "fix" your friends?

 

No, not all my friends Well, I believe the reason I was so interested in helping this guy is because he was into some really destructive things. He is jewish, just like I am. I felt the urge to try to save him from destroying himself. But to be honest I'm tired. I quit. He doesn't want help... fine. I tried my best, but there are limits, you know? He likes it this way, my conscience is clean.

 

Ah I see, you really won't bother with that guy unless you were interested in him right? But maybe you're just moved by this person's destructive habits I guess. Let us help those who ask us for help and not the ones who don't want help. I tried my friend to get her to stop being a sugar mommy to all of her "boyfriends" because they only want what they can get from her, so since she doesn't want to listen, I give up. She even steals from people just to give something to her bf at that time! (I say "at that time" because her "relationships" are really short-lived)

 

I can't lie to you... our connection was strong at first. But now I'm tired I tried to help him, he doesn't want my help, what can I do? I just can walk away from him, that's what I'm doing actually. I've only male friends by the way My closest friend is a cancer, and the second closest is a leo

Your friend's case is really sad She must have a really low self-esteem to feel the need she needs to give those guys something in order they stay with her But is nice you tried to help Maybe one day she will understand, it took me a while to understand a few things when I was younger

 

Wasn't that the cutest panda. As for may category of boredom, I'm not quite certain which I'd fit in. I was thinking may three, then I read five so then it left me thinking.

 

To be honest Rosa, I don't think any of those types of boredom made any sense, lol. Hence everyone here had such a hard time picking which kind of boredom they suffer from.

 

@Trellum, I guess we shouldn't help someone who doesn't really need help in the 1st place! My friend craves for "love", and when I looked at her chart, it did say that "she can never get enough love". No wonder she's looking for a bf all the time, even only thru text!

 

Currently am in the 5th, 4th and 3rd kind of boredom and its craaazy!!!

 

You are right! By the way, that's so sad Looking for love everywhere, but not getting it. I've seen it happen all the time. I know a woman over here who is desperate for the over of her son and mom, but they treat her so badly. She keeps trying tho. So sad.

 

Oh maybe she was a bad person to them? Or it's the other way around, and her mom and child are the evil ones? What did they do to her?

 

Yeah, maybe she was. I actually think she isn't telling us the full story. But I also know some people can be so mean just because, just like my sis with my mom, whose only mistake was spending too much time away working That's all my mom did for my sister to hate her. Some people are just crazy

 

Tell me about it :O I hate feeling frustrated and bored, right now I'm waiting for something big that might happen after 6 months. Sucks to know you have to wait and see what happens! You get bored and frustrated, you have to find a way to pass that time.