What's your relationship status?

That's wonderful! I know there are a few couples that are just like that, you are so lucky for belonging to that group Not many people can say they married to their best friend nd I think you are

 

@Trellum, nausea? Uh-oh. Remember what you mentioned in the email? Anyway, regarding your ex, I think that it's important that you guys start out as friends first before going further, because if you can't be good friends, then certainly you can't go further than that!

 

Yeah, I actually have great news regarding to that Not what I thought!!!!! Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeess!!!!!!!!

As for the ex... ah, that guy was a nightmare. He was an abuser and a controller, I should have known better and spot the signs often, sadly I didn't, but oh well... at least now I know I will never let a guy do that to me ever again!

Do you always start as friend?

 

Yes it should always start that way, because when people start hinting that they like me when I barely know them at all and even asking me what do I think of their "activities" like I should know about them then I feel uncomfortable with that. I barely know the person, you know.

 

Yeah, I don't like it when guys start to say things like ''I love you'' and ''you are the woman of my dreams'' too soon, because odds are they don't really feel that way It just gives me a bad feeling when they do. Most narcissistic guys start like that: showing too much interest and then going cold when they think they have you where they want

 

Single and loving it! I would much rather spend my time and money working on my business right now than be focused on taking care of my girl. Someday I will go looking

 

Haha, they say all sorts of things to be able to get into your pants you know. Then when you slept with them already, they start to lose interest because the conquest has been made. So girls should not give it up that easily! Unless they into 1 night stands.

 

I've been living with my long-time girlfriend for two years now, so I guess I'm pretty much married, just no paper signage involved

 

I was talking about relationships with guys who have narcissistic traits, those guys start to say that kind of things very early on. Then once they know they have the girl where they want, they start to lose interest. This kind of guys like to play hot and cold games too. One of my friends is having issues with a guy like that.

 

Ah you mean those narcissist guys who just woo girls to be able to get an ego-boost? I get it, yeah they just want to test if the girl will fall into their trap, and then when they do fall, then they will start to distance themselves from the girl. Am I getting it right?

 

Yeah, those guys!!!!! Narcissistic guys are the worst ones, or one of the worst ones, specially if they decide to stick with the girl... I've heard horror stories who marry them.

 

Yeah I can just imagine how the relationship will be like. The guy will probably want to hear all sorts of compliments from anyone and might stray from the relationship just to get the validation that he craves.

 

Yeah, want all the attention for himself and so on. Go hot and cold constantly and belittle his partner. I once met a girl like that, that girl was kinda nuts, she liked to play it hot and cold with me (she had an interest in me) and tried to make me jealous by being nicer to her other friends. Sometimes she did the same to them with me. You'd not believe the following that girl had... despite she did all that!!

That girl was scary! She spied on her exes on Facebook, by asking all her friends to unfriend said person and ask her closest friend to keep the guy/girls in her list... When she asked you to unfriend the guy/girl she used as a excuse this person was spying on her. I later found out about that... so ironic, because the only one spying on someone was her! Her mom was a narcissist as well (she told me). She could be so nice sometimes, but others act so erratic and ignore you. No longer friends with her, I deleted her and blocked her from FB... that girl was nuts!

 

Leo's tend to be narcississts. What's her zodiac sign? So she was even making her friends jealous too even if she doesn't have an interest in them?
That's odd, lol. Why bother making your platonic friends jealous right? And she was asking all of her friends to unfriend that certain guy/girl to make it look like she isn't spying on them? Kind of a defensive move if you ask me.

 

I'm single and I am kind of enjoying it right now. I can save a lot of money and I can do anything I want during my free time.

 

I'm currently in a relationship with someone I've known since middleschool. Its a complicated, rather stressful situation right now because she has kids (not mine) and has been staying at our house for half a year now because she lost custody of them (LONG STORY) so I don't even know if I'd call it a relationship anymore. 90% of the time I just try to keep the peace but its hard, she is very moody and has more than a few problems herself.

 

Uhm, I'm not 100% sure, I'm pretty sure she was either Leo or Scorpio. And yeah, but she didn't do that in a romantic way, she just did that as some kind of narcissistic move (I read about it), they often want to make you feel unsure about yourself and do things like this to get you on your toes and actually start missing their attention (and in exchange give them more attention until you actually want to gain back their 'affection''). Very twisted actually. She is a narcissist, she wants everyone to always pay attention to her and be showered with attention.

I'm not sure why she deleted those folks if she still was interested enough in them to actually spy on them with the help of her friends. LOL. Did you know she was so desperate of attention she created something called ''zombie Mondays''. It went like this: She'd post a picture on FB about zombies, and tag you on it and if she didn't you could consider yourself ignored (another narcissistic move), if you were tagged... well you practically had to post something related to zombies on her FB page. LOL. Ugh.. why didn't I see it back then?

 

So sorry to hear that! I might come across as nosy, but it sounds to me like you don't really love this woman? If so... I must say you are such a good and patient person for staying with her. I'm not sure I'd be able to do the same, but I do know that as long as there is love... a relationship can be saved. But when there is no love in a relationship... then there is nothing that can be saved.

 

I'm single, and it has a good and bad affect on me. But I am not trying to find that man, but he can find me.

 

Hahaha, I know what you mean Back when I was single I was so happy, but there were times I felt like something was missing. I met my boyfriend I wasn't really expecting anything It's just happened, it's so nice when things happen this way.