A girl comes up to you in a party and tells you

I'd say "And I want you to not be a manipulative b****. Your turn."

She can "want" whatever she likes, doesn't mean I have to do it. Women can pay for their own drinks, I don't owe a girl I don't know anything, and she can be hot as hell or sexy as the devil, still doesn't mean I have to do anything for her. I utterly hate people who think their looks will buy them a free meal, figuratively speaking, and are so full of themselves, that just blinking with their eyelashes and asking for something in a sexy voice will get them whatever they want.

You want a drink? Go buy one. You want a drink and have a chat, or dance, or hook up in any other way? Cool, get your drink that you paid for, I'll get mine and we'll hook up.

 

Women who date married men are gross. It's morally wrong first and foremost, but also you're like his thing on the side. After he's done with the wife for the night, or if she won't give him any. Also these women are lazy and don't really bother searching for men. They want them to just come to them. Married men by the way are in some cases broke. Especially when they have to support their wife and kids financially. And then have to keep the new mistress quiet with jewelry, cars, furs, etc.

 

Interesting perspective. I don't buy a girl a drink any and everytime she wants one. But most men feel the opposite. I guess that's how the whole hook up thing works. Although not always. Sometimes, buying her a drink still doesn't increase your chances of getting laid.

 

Yeah, buying a girl a drink increases your chances of being laid, however the bad part would be if the girl doesn't give you any after consuming the free drink, lol.

 

Must be my lucky day! But yeah it all depends. I'll have to "see" what's behind the "offer". I'm actually a generous guy but would not fall easy on that. Maybe I would start a conversation first so that I would somehow see her intentions. I'm actually not into aggressive girls and would rather do the first move.

 

If she is my type, then I just buy her the drink and throw in a few good lines to get her to go out with me. However, if she is with someone else, then I would really be mad and I would not buy the drink. It also depends on my mood. If I am in a good mood, then I will ask her to by me the drink instead. I think it would also depend on whether I know her or not. If she is one of my ex-girlfriends, then I would refuse completely to buy her the drink.

If the girl is already too drunk to even know her own name, then I would not buy her another drink. I think that it is very weird for any girl to do this.

 

Party? What's that?

In all seriousness, I don't think that I'd do it. It's a matter of personal principle, as what amounts to "buy me something" isn't the first thing I want to hear from a stranger, even if it is an attractive female; despite it being "the way things are done" here in America, that's immediately getting off on the wrong foot as far as I'm concerned. It may be seen as a nice thing to do, but you shouldn't have to solicit someone being nice to you; I believe it should come without asking.

 

But it also depends on the woman. The more mature women know how to play the game with subtlety and tact. Thus the man ends up getting them a drink but yet they don't come off looking spoiled and needy. The younger girls are usually the ones who flaunt their sexuality to get stuff.

 

Yaha. I'd probably tell her to buy her own drink and stop being so cheap. Now if I offered to buy her a drink that would be another story entirely.

 

I would tell her I'm straight and not in any way into women and she'll have to buy her own drink. I would never ask a guy to buy me a drink because I feel like it's crazy to ask a stranger to spend money on me. I'm too independent for that.

 

Ah so you're a girl? You nick is quite misleading, I thought that you're a guy!